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"sometimes I just gotta wonder what it’s worth" [07 Nov 2009|10:42am]
[ mood | thoughtful ]
[ music | run to me. ]

Bulls' Thomas breaks arm, out 4-6 weeks. My husband just rolls his eyes at the continued drama.

There's so much drama in a lot of things. The last couple of weeks have reminded me how lucky I am to have Tom, and to have the relationship that we have. We never had to deal with dramatics. With lying or cheating or crazy ex-girlfriends (or boyfriends, let's be fair) or someone driving a Volkswagen into the living room. Our story is simple, so simple that it's boring: we literally met in the grocery store. Yes, that happens. In the produce department striking up a discussion about salad. He actually tracked me down through my boss and called me up to ask me on a date. I was so impressed by his effort and his knowledge of salad dressing that I said yes. We've been together for six years. That's all there is to it. Yes, we've had fights, and we've had rough times (who doesn't?) but we've been very lucky. We've always been honest. Always been faithful. No one has thrown anything at any one.

It seems to me like I have the last functional relationship in the world on some days. I worry about Remy and all the drama other people put him through; he deserves better than that, but at the same time I can understand that he just wants to be loved, no matter what. Tanner can't even keep a girlfriend for more than a week, it seems like, which is a shame because he really is a good man under all that bravado. And Amber...don't get me started. She kicked the drug habit and ended up with a bad dating habit. She knows she's worth waiting for, somewhere in there, but she's too desperate and lonely to wait. They all deserve more than they have, and they're all settling for less, or getting hurt over something, or being fucked with. And it hurts me, because I do care about all of them. In a way they're like my family and I just want to hug them all and protect them all and make everything okay. But that as we know is impossible.

So all I can do is come home every night and hug my husband, and thank him for being the good man that he is. For the fact that those cute things most people try to do to impress a woman are the things Tom does naturally six years later: for calling me for no other reason than to annoy me, for taking care of things around the house without being asked to, for giving me time and space so I can spend it with my family when they need me, for holding the doors and pulling out the chairs and just being a good person. An honest, loving, supportive person who communicates and works with me to maintain a relationship that benefits the both of us. I wonder why there can't be more men like him in the universe. I do know that I am very, very lucky to have him.

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Sheep time! [05 Nov 2009|08:08pm]
[ mood | bored ]
[ music | something on cnn. ]

Because clearly, I do what my BFF tells me to do. )

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"watch her breathing and whisper a prayer" [02 Nov 2009|12:33pm]
[ mood | relaxed ]
[ music | beyond the sea. ]

Halloween was...interesting, to say the least. Remy got incredibly wasted. Tom had a little too much fun getting hit on. Small children were really into my Power Ranger outfit and I had to pry a few of them off me. But it was good fun, and we all had a great time.

The new practice is up and going well. Troy has sent over some cases with leads in the area to give us something to start with, and also for us to lend him a hand. Tanner's liking being the number-two guy, and I'm still getting to know some of the new people, but they're all working out so far. Amber is getting the grip of the whole thing, but she's easing into it. It's helping her with her deal. It's amazing how this job is about helping ourselves as much as it is about helping others.

The Bulls are starting to flounder. Tom is unaffected; after all there's nothing he can do to make it any better. I think he misses Orlando, though. Wouldn't blame him, I mean he was there for years, he's still learning all these people here in Chicago. Also, he looks better in blue. But it's all worked out. I'm a lucky woman.

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"well yesterday’s news was lit like a fuse and everything started to turn" [27 Oct 2009|12:01pm]
[ mood | busy ]
[ music | right back where we started from. ]

+2.

Starting to move everything into the new office today. We're on the sixth floor of an office building, which isn't all that different from the office in Ft. Myers - strangely comforting. It's a big blank canvas now just waiting for us all to put something into it. Tanner flew in today and he and I are doing all those things like picking up office supplies, getting furniture unloaded, all that good stuff. It's strange to think I'm the boss woman now after working under Troy for so long. But it's kind of fun. He and I definitely have a vision for what we want to do and we get to put it together.

You wouldn't think we'd get along, me in my Donna Karan and him looking like he overslept for the fifth time this week, but we do. Tanner's a good guy, and a good friend. Always there for anyone that needs him. I'm glad to have him on my team. The others will filter in once we get the office set up.

Tom is settling into his new job working with the Bulls. He wasn't sure where he was going to land. The Cubs are in disarray and no way in hell did he want anything to do with the dysfunctional White Sox, so it was back to the NBA for him. He just saw his new office today, he's busy meeting everyone and glad-handing and all that lawyer stuff. Good for him; I could never do that. The moment some idiot got his ass in jail, I'd just be reading him the riot act or something. But my baby has always had way more patience than me when it comes to stupid behavior. Why I love him, he makes me a better woman.

It's good to be home.

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"coming across the state line, I took it as a good sign." [24 Oct 2009|10:12pm]
[ mood | relaxed. ]
[ music | you're getting to be a habit with me. ]

"Why did I marry you again?" Janel asked as she held the door for her husband. They were in the middle of another of their usual sarcastic bantering dialogues. Which seemed to happen every day.

"Because I'm ridiculously good-looking," Tom replied, pretending to preen for a moment as he shifted his weight and carried the last box into the apartment. He settled it next to the others. "Okay, I think that's the last one," he said. They'd agreed to keep most of their stuff in storage as it arrived from Fort Myers, so as not to overrun her uncle's apartment with what had been the contents of a cute little tract home.

Janel nodded, slipping up behind him and wrapping her arms around her husband's waist. "I didn't realize we owned so much stuff," she admitted, laughing as she nuzzled him gently.

"I think it comes with settling down and turning into old married people," he commented wryly.

"Hey, speak for yourself, I'm barely past thirty," she replied. There was a bit of an age difference between them - seven years to be specific - but that had never bothered them. They loved the hell out of each other even if they had very strange ways of showing it. Like snarking at each other all the time. Tom pretended to look wounded. His wife laughed softly and kissed his cheek gently. "Thank you for being willing to do this with me," she said.

"Aw, don't mention it." He smiled back at her. "As long as I've known you, you've been talking about this. It's not like this was a surprise to me. And hey, it will be good to get a new start. New opportunities. If we'd moved to Utah with my family, you'd be beating your head into the wall, and the interior design would not be this good."

Janel laughed out loud at that. "Remy's got the best taste of anyone I know," she said as she let him go and moved to decide which of the boxes they should start unpacking first. "How do you think I look this good? I've had a lifetime of proper training."

Tom chuckled. "Remind me to thank him. For the sixtieth time," he agreed, rolling up his sleeves to help her. He was genuinely excited about the opportunity, and glad to see his wife getting what she had always wanted. He knew that she adored her uncle, more like a sibling to her than anything else. Truth be told he liked the guy too. Had ever since they'd met, once Tom had convinced him that he wasn't going to break Janel's heart.

Here they were, five years later, and everything could not be more perfect.

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"she said say a prayer for innocence." [24 Oct 2009|08:48pm]
[ mood | creative ]
[ music | the news. ]

General Info:

  • Name: Janel Adrienne Harmon
  • PB: Amelia Warner
  • DOB: January 17, 1977
  • POB: New York City, NY
  • Age: 32 in 2009
  • Career: Professional locator/private investigator
  • Marital Status: Married to Tom Harmon since 2006
  • Contact: AIM (recoveringace) or comment to this post
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